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When you turn the side of your face away... I will not be able to reach you anymore.

Oh. I thought claiming you'd blown a 12 year old boy was the issue. An idiotic notion of mine, sorry.

That was what I was referring to, yes. I did blow a 12 year old boy, several times in fact. However, I didn't say it was in an act of pederasty, you just assumed it happened when I was an adult. I never stated how old I was when it happened.

This post has been edited by BradRepko: Jun 24 2010, 10:22

I did blow a 12 year old boy, several times in fact.

Really? (IMG:[invalid] style_emoticons/default/huh.gif)

Yes, but I was 12 too.... actually, I was 14, and he was 11; but he coerced me and used me for his own pleasure. It's not exactly like I was an unwilling participant in it, even if I was the only one to suck it and take it in the ass.

This post has been edited by BradRepko: Jun 24 2010, 12:05

So, would you say unripe fruit is worth a taste?

.... I'm not entirely sure I should answer that. Then again, my reluctance to answer should give an indication towards which answer I'm leaning towards.

I will say this, though. People's tastes in what they like and enjoy vary on the individual. Something I may like may not be liked by everybody. However, just becomes someones taste are unusual or "taboo" doesn't necessarily make them wrong, either. Society is quick to judge other people's sexuality and label certain behaviors taboo, without attempting to understand what makes other people who they are. They say that they are tolerant, but if they try to force everyone to conform to a certain lifestyle or set of beliefs, how can that be called tolerance?

Tolerance is restraining oneself from trying to change what you don't accept. Many people don't control themselves all that well.

In my eyes, someone who's willing to show their quirks is all the more lovable.

Yet one man's quirk is another man's inner demon.

One might distinguish certain features as unhealthy, merely because they wouldn't want them.

With good intentions, some try to fix others through change, if they're perceived as unhappy.

Some think, "Just because something's good for you, doesn't necessarily mean it's going to be good for me."

Some would indeed prefer to change, by facing their unwanted habits, or trying to become more like another.

Showing a humble attitude can give relevant cause for others to help you.

Sincerity provides substantial reason to care and understand how you came to be in the situation you're in.

A person is what he does, yes—but even more, a person is what he means to do.

Without motivation, there is seldom any action transcending one's habitual ritual.

If you're too one-dimensional to believe in yourself, you won't persuade anyone else to believe in you, either.

If you let your pride become an anchor, you will sink to the depths of the ocean, right alongside your dignity.

You know what rock band has an awesome name?

Five Finger Death Punch.

You know what rock band has an awesome name?

Five Finger Death Punch.

A total change of subject, huh? ^^
To me is Napalm Death.

In my eyes, someone who's willing to show their quirks is all the more lovable.

2nd.

Yet one man's quirk is another man's inner demon.

And with the proper course of events the two could very well get along.

One might distinguish certain features as unhealthy, merely because they wouldn't want them.

A Weakness that is.

With good intentions, some try to fix others through change, if they're perceived as unhappy.

Being unhappy and alone is a positive change in it's essence.

Some think, "Just because something's good for you, doesn't necessarily mean it's going to be good for me."

But the fact it's good for you means some merit I can find in it.

Some would indeed prefer to change, by facing their unwanted habits, or trying to become more like another.

Lacking motivation they could run into a wall and wallow in their own melancholic "bad habits" thus creating yet another bad habit they can't deal with on their own.

Showing a humble attitude can give relevant cause for others to help you.

Humbleness must not come to a level where it suppresses some of your emotions.

Sincerity provides substantial reason to care and understand how you came to be in the situation you're in.

I wish all human beings would think this way. I truly do.

A person is what he does, yes—but even more, a person is what he means to do.

In a sense, it is. But not more than what he does. What he does is but how far he reached with his intentions. This shows his motivation, while the intensions show nothing more then intensions. How long he lives with those intensions, is also a great indicator.

Without motivation, there is seldom any action transcending one's habitual ritual.

I failed understanding this.

If you're too one-dimensional to believe in yourself, you won't persuade anyone else to believe in you, either.

People who care and DO belive in you would try and change this trait.

If you let your pride become an anchor, you will sink to the depths of the ocean, right alongside your dignity.

Pride is always an anchor no matter how large.

Yes, but I was 12 too.... actually, I was 14, and he was 11;

but he coerced me and used me for his own pleasure.

So who's the "rapist" in that scenario?

So who's the "rapist" in that scenario?

I think it's no one (IMG:[invalid] style_emoticons/default/unsure.gif)

I think it's no one (IMG:[invalid] style_emoticons/default/unsure.gif)

I meant in the eyes of the law, sweetums.

If the law stepped in, it would be to correct children of their age, and not to punish. In this scenario, the broken boundaries between the two are vague, if at all present. All the authorities would likely do upon discovery would be to try and circumvent any further happenings. The children would both be seen as innocent, but their families might come under question. Investigators always seek to possibly find and prosecute an adult behind the scenes, facilitating this type of behavior in pre-pubescent children. It's not so uncommon that you see children's natural curiosity border on the risque, without them even realizing it, but when a child is hyper-sexual at a very young age, it indicates they were molested by an adult, or vicariously through another child who'd been an adult's victim, etc., etc.

It used to be called "playing doctor" when you were a kid or just plain "messing around" when you got out of junior high/high school for the afternoon. Now if two kids are caught doing dirty stuff to each other out behind the toolshed, they're hauled away and labeled as rapists, mentally deranged and whatever else.

So who's the "rapist" in that scenario?

I meant in the eyes of the law, sweetums.

The 11 year old boy or the 14 year old Autistic boy who was in special education. In my state, the boy with the Autism would be considered the one who "got taken advantage of".

I thought I was going to return when there was another HV update, but if Panda is back, I'll come back for a bit. (I wonder if people noticed I "left" 2 weeks ago)

This post has been edited by Boggyb: Jun 25 2010, 23:12

(I wonder if people noticed I "left" 2 weeks ago)

No.

No.

You 2 really hate each other don't you? It would be ironic if you 2 in RL would be the best of friends, without knowing each others e-user. (IMG:[invalid] style_emoticons/default/laugh.gif)

This post has been edited by cmdct: Jun 25 2010, 23:50