QUOTE(Deathscythe_X1 @ Oct 22 2009, 23:59)

I only had turns with that only one bitch, my luck never changes.
Just so you know, I believe most kind-hearted guys run into at least one of these encounters; good times. And for a long while afterward, still emotionally involved in the terminated relationship, we wonder if they'd get busy freakin' out and panicking over us, if anything were to happen, but whatever you eventually do is just your own business, you see... Your life is of no concern to them anymore. "Pitiful is as pitiful does", they would say; your "life is like a box of pity" which they've already moved away from.
Your main job right now—it is a higher priority than the one you're making a living off of—is holding out, until you can put the past aside and reclaim your life, as if your life depended on it—because it does. You will really need to wait and see if you still desire her the same way, then, after having yourself under control for a good period of time, without the need of "finding" another to complete you. You can leave that for later. Time is on your side. It's more complex than shutting down, feeling you can't tolerate the Goddamn pain, I know, but it'll go away. Gain some support, talk to your close friends—they'll help you through the rough patches. It should eventually begin to feel a little easier to be you—this, I'm telling
you from true experience, and I wish I knew me back when I had these problems...
Having experience true happiness, and terrible sadness, you can still expect more wonderful opportunities to come, if you allow yourself the kind of life you can only give yourself. Move ahead, and use your experience to know what does and doesn't work the next time, and your victories are sure to come. It's simply a matter of will. Just allow yourself to take babysteps, and you can learn to find your ground. It's up to you, whether you're going to live a miserable life, or a happy one. That's what I've learned.
QUOTE(creamkorn7 @ Oct 23 2009, 00:12)

Believe me from experience there are just as much asshole men out there as there are bitch women.
Yes; I personally agree.
QUOTE(Katya @ Oct 23 2009, 00:17)

Probably more, quite honestly.
And yes: Definitely, without a doubt—men will always be more pervasive that way, like an epidemic... Who fills the prisons? Think about how else to explain that.