This is among the main reasons of why it's just easier to not take everything seriously. The world is insane. However suppose there is a sense of justice of how the trans women are overtaking women spaces slowly and becoming women of the year etc. They solved the injustice made by the fanatic women.
Yeah, its like they want all the perceived perks of being male without any of the downsides. Ironically they hurt themselves because they leave no space to raise a family or have work life balance. 30 seems to be the great wall, where women decide to pursue careers matching or outperforming men or choose to have a family with work-life balance. Under 30 women and women that choose not to have a family earn more than men now.
I feel that a lot of trans women, are just men that want the same deal, the perks of being female without the downsides. They will probably realize that without the ability to have children and no careers that society does not value them. What is the value of 40+ trans woman with no career and no family. No wonder Canada, and soon UK, are offering them assisted termination.
I liked the documentary where a lesbian had her team dress her up enough to pass as a man for a few months, then she realised that men are treated like shit and have none of the secret benefits that she though she had. She infiltrated men's group and found they were all depressed and weren't allowed to share feelings and had low self esteem.
I guess one perk I have as a man is that I've never been mugged. Once someone attempted to mug me by mistake but then offered me their money. Such a nice person.
I liked the documentary where a lesbian had her team dress her up enough to pass as a man for a few months, then she realised that men are treated like shit and have none of the secret benefits that she though she had. She infiltrated men's group and found they were all depressed and weren't allowed to share feelings and had low self esteem.
And then she got pestered so much by feminists that she eventually killed herself from the harassment.
I feel that a lot of trans women, are just men that want the same deal, the perks of being female without the downsides. They will probably realize that without the ability to have children and no careers that society does not value them. What is the value of 40+ trans woman with no career and no family. No wonder Canada, and soon UK, are offering them assisted termination.
If my girlfriend was sterile that'd be a bonus. I have absolutely zero desire to have children. And I do not doubt that there are others that feel the same way (though a minority). The entirety of society does not necessarily reject that notion. Society can be multifaceted.
Plus there's the fact that I don't really think it'd be right for me to bring someone else into a world that is kind of fucking sad just because of my own selfishness. There are multiple ways of looking at things.
I have a career because surviving in capitalism demands it. But not because I actually care about my "career." My "career" that I actually do care about is one of developing myself and never stop trying to learn new things. And that's not what people usually mean when they talk about careers. Would a lack of a career be something that I'd worry about...? Sure. At least a little. Ideally in that situation I'd be able to try to encourage my theoretical girlfriend/wife to pursue something that interests her, because that's pretty much what I'm trying to do with my work to the extent that that is feasible.
If she still showed zero interest in changing herself or attempting to make something of herself, even at my urging, then yeah, it'd be a problem because it means they have either given up or never had any goals or dreams to begin with. But 'not having a career' in and of itself doesn't mean much. I didn't have a career at one point because I hadn't found something that fit me at all well. No one starts life with a career.
TL;DR:
I hate kids,
Wanting to bring more people into a world that's going to shit to be miserable for the next <n> years because you think it will bring you some happiness for the first few years is selfish, cruel, and wrong
Not having a career only matters if they aren't actually making any effort to have one or make something of themselves. If they've given up.
I didn't ask to be born. I'm trying to make the best of it since I'm here, and maybe try to make it better for others, but if I had a choice in the matter from the start I wouldn't have bothered.
Living day to day isn't a "struggle" per se, but the world as it is (and the tyranny of the clock) do not form a basis for good mental health/wellbeing.
QUOTE(Fr. Radixius @ Jan 30 2023, 17:05)
Almost like there's a pattern.
Rich white people getting upset to "advocate" for minority groups (and virtue signal), while the actual people they are "advocating" for are more rational? Yeah.
This post has been edited by dragontamer8740: Jan 31 2023, 00:25
Plus there's the fact that I don't really think it'd be right for me to bring someone else into a world that is kind of fucking sad just because of my own selfishness. There are multiple ways of looking at things.
I was looking at the data for Western countries. The problem is that the capitalist economic side has not grown at the expected/required pace for the past 30 years to cover the increase in social welfare spending. We are basically living in human fueled pyramid schemes now.
In my country we went from net +$1000 tax liability over the life time on average for each citizen in 2000 to -$80k tax liability. They rolled all of these nice sounding social welfare schemes which have bloated out and are now insolvent. So we have to mass import skilled humans (20-30 years old) who hopefully do not have a family already, and have an average contribution of +$190k. When you import an unskilled human for humanitarian reasons their net liability is -$400k due to all the welfare they get. Also when skilled immigrants bring family, their liability for each member is -$120k.
We need to keep the socialist pyramid scheme going. I don't what we will do if we actually go full socialist, we can't even support the quasi social welfare we have now.
The country that got destroyed the most was Germany who mass imported what they were hoping would be skilled, and semi-skilled labor but 95% applied for humanitarian welfare. Hahaha rekt.
QUOTE(dragontamer8740 @ Jan 30 2023, 12:12)
TL;DR:
I hate kids,
Wanting to bring more people into a world that's going to shit to be miserable for the next <n> years because you think it will bring you some happiness for the first few years is selfish, cruel, and wrong
Not having a career only matters if they aren't actually making any effort to have one or make something of themselves. If they've given up.
I didn't ask to be born. I'm trying to make the best of it since I'm here, and maybe try to make it better for others, but if I had a choice in the matter from the start I wouldn't have bothered.
Kids are worst it the first years because they disrupt your sleep. Its only women that think they have value before they can at least not die if you aren't constantly monitoring them.
QUOTE(dragontamer8740 @ Jan 30 2023, 12:12)
Rich white people getting upset to "advocate" for minority groups (and virtue signal), while the actual people they are "advocating" for are more rational? Yeah.
Yeah, I like it when minorities realize that they were just being used for the cause and get nothing in the end.
Like how people in the BLM strongholds are starting to slowly realize their communities are going to shit because the organization vacuumed up all the community welfare program budgets.
QUOTE(Honeycat @ Jan 30 2023, 12:48)
I am a cat.
If you look at my cupboard its just full of canned tuna, so people thought I had a cat.
This post has been edited by EsotericSatire: Jan 31 2023, 02:09
Kids are worst it the first years because they disrupt your sleep. Its only women that think they have value before they can at least not die if you aren't constantly monitoring them.
Definitely. But teenaged children aren't going to make many parents especially happy.
According to my parents I was the most smiley/happy when I was around five through eight. Based on my memories, cliques started forming at school when I was around 8. So I think I might know at least one of the reasons I started to get moodier, pre-puberty. (IMG:[i.postimg.cc] https://i.postimg.cc/B6Q8h9s1/daria-kids-static.png)
This post has been edited by dragontamer8740: Jan 31 2023, 06:07
Yeah, I like it when minorities realize that they were just being used for the cause and get nothing in the end.
Like how people in the BLM strongholds are starting to slowly realize their communities are going to shit because the organization vacuumed up all the community welfare program budgets.
Free mansions for some, miniature bipoc pride flags for others!